VAGINA THERAPY STRICTLY FOR THE LADIES

Ladies..if you are big enough to have sex or be sexy, then you should be wise enough to take care of your VAGINA...

A woman's womb is the emblem of life itself , it is unique to women, the holder of life and the 'waiting room between the physical and spiritual worlds of New life. It therefore means that a woman's Vagina should be treated with respect because it is the door way of life..(RIP to the woman who was raped ,killed and a big stick inserted into her vagina ..May her killers die a thousand deaths before their death and may they never know peace even when they are caught because they have mocked the essence of creation : the woman's womb and vagina)
Ladies , any IDIOT can call you a HOE..but you must never answer to that name..because that is not the name GOD gave you..GOD calls you a Mother and a Wife....Please take care of your Vaginas..

African Mother and Child Painting by Sheila Diemert

While researching on VAGINA THERAPY  I found ,15 CRAZY THINGS I BET YOU DONT KNOW ABOUT YOUR VAYJAYJAY ( My hilarious comments are in bracket..)

• Pubic hair is not just a biological accident that forces us to the waxing salon. It serves three critical functions. First, it protects the delicate vagina. Second, it serves as a reproductive billboard to alert potential mates that you are biologically (if not emotionally) prepared to procreate. And last, it's a pheromone carpet and traps the scents that lead potential mates to the promised land. So you might think twice before you shave it all off. It's there for a reason.( Embrace your afro..lol)

• There are 8000 nerve endings in the clitoris, dedicated exclusively to female pleasure. The penis only has 4000. Who says God didn't take care of us girls? (Thats why the jealous men call you HOE..ignore them joor , because you are wonderfully made by GOD )

pleasure is a dual game..no cheating lol

• The average vagina is 3-4 inches long, but fear not if your guy is hung like a horse. The vagina can expand by 200% when sexually aroused, kind of like a balloon. Remember, the vagina was made to birth babies, so it's exceedingly elastic. If you have pain when getting it on with someone large, you can use dilators to help stretch the vagina so you can accommodate the whole package. (All that stress and pain for pleasure?..if he is too big my sister please save your womb and run for your life ..lol)

• The vagina doesn't connect to the lung. While the vagina can expand, it's not an open conduit to the abdominal cavity. While microscopic sperm can swim through a tiny hole in the cervix, a tampon simply won't fit. So if you lose something in there, don't worry. Reach in all the way and pull it out. Do not -- I repeat, do not -- go hunting for whatever you've lost with a pair of pliers. Think of your vagina as being like a sock. If you lose a banana in a sock...it stays in the sock. (hmmmmn ..please make sure the condom is firmly secure , avoid high blood pressure)

• Yes, it's true -- your vagina can fall out, it can turn inside out just like a worn out sweat sock and hang between your legs as you get older. But don't fret; this condition -- called pelvic prolapse -- can be fixed.
• Vaginas have something in common with sharks. Both contain squalene, a substance that exists in both shark livers and natural vaginal lubricant. (Cue music: "She's a maneater...") ( WE MAKE MEN CRY..NATURALLY ..LOL)

• You can catch sexually transmitted diseases even if you use a condom. Sorry to break it to you, but the skin of the vulva can still touch infectious skin of the scrotum -- and BAM! Warts. Herpes. Molluscum contagiosum. Pubic lice. So pick your partners carefully. (All that glitters is not gold ..BAD MEN GO TO CHURCH TOO...HUNT OR BE HUNTED CAREFULLY ABEG).

• The average length of the labia minora is less than ¾ inch long (yes, someone got out a ruler and measured 2981 women). Only 1.8% of women have labia longer than 1 ½ inches. But remember, every vulva is different and special. Some lips hang down. Some are tucked up neatly inside. Some are long. Some are short. Some are even. Some aren't. All are beautiful. You're perfect just the way you are.

• While hair on your head can live up to seven years, pubic hair has a life expectancy of about three weeks, which is why it only grows so long. So don't worry if you opt not to groom your pubes -- you won't need to braid them any time soon. ( how about a dreadlocked Vayjayjay?..not for the weak..the perfect APRIL FOOL'S PRANK)

• The word "vagina" comes from the Latin root meaning "sheath for a sword," which may explain why some women simply hate the word. So if you don't like the word "vagina," pick your own name for your girly parts. Just call it something and don't be afraid to talk about it. (You can call it POWER HOUSE )

• Only about 30% of women have orgasms from intercourse alone. The clitoris is where the action is. Most women who do orgasm during sex have figured out how to hit their sweet spot, either from positioning or from direct stimulation of the clitoris with fingers. (RESPECT TO THE MEN WHO KNOW HOW TO PLEASURE WOMEN....MEN WHO ARE BAD BEDMATES ARE LEARNERS...lol)

• Increasing evidence suggests that the G spot feels good because it lies right over a deep part of the clitoris. Although experts describe the G spot as being inside the vagina on the anterior wall, just under the urethra, the crura of the clitoris actually runs right there. And a recent study demonstrated that vaginal orgasms may actually be deep clitoral orgasms. But who cares? An orgasm is an orgasm. Appreciate it, regardless of where it comes from. (ALL ENJOYMENT IS ENJOYMENT..SAY NO CHEATING, SAY NO TO "2 MIN INDOMIE MEN"!!)

if you dont do this during your intimate moments then he is a learner (in OLAMIDE'S VOICE..lol)

• Vaginal farts (some call them "queefs" or "varts") happen to almost all women at one time or another, especially during sex or other forms of exercise. So don't be embarrassed if your hooha lets out a toot. You're perfectly normal. (YEP..TELL HIM ITS NATURE...#DISCLAIMER...PLEASE DONT FART INTO HIS MOUTH IF HE IS DOING THE DISHES DOWN THERE WITH HIS TONGUE O...A TRIAL MIGHT CONFUSE BOTH OF YOU)

• Some women do ejaculate during orgasm, but you're normal if you don't. The controversial "female ejaculation" most likely represents two different phenomena. If it's a small amount of milky fluid, it likely comes from the paraurethral glands inside the urethra. If it's a cup, it's probably pee. Many times, it may be a little bit of both. But don't stress out about peeing on yourself. Put a towel under you and surrender to the experience. (I AM NOT SURE HE WILL APPRECIATE THAT GOLDEN RAIN DURING COITAL ALIGNMENT LOL)

• Safe sex (or even just orgasm alone) is good for you. Benefits include lowering your risk of heart disease and stroke, reducing your risk of breast cancer, bolstering your immune system, helping you sleep, making you appear more youthful, improving your fitness, regulating menstrual cycles, relieving menstrual cramps, helping with chronic pain, reducing the risk of depression, lowering stress levels, and improving self esteem. So go at it, girlfriends! (IF ONLY HIS PENIS WILL ALLOWS HIM TO BE FAITHFUL TO ONE WOMAN...BUT THATS ROCKET SCIENCE FOR MEN)

WOMAN..KNOW THYSELF AND APPRECIATE THY VAGINA...The vagina is the creator of life and the portal of pleasure.
But it's also where we carry many traumas -- menstrual cramps, childbirth trauma, molestation, rape, abortion, and painful gynecological exams. If we don't release these traumas, they back up and manifest in a whole host of health conditions like depression and chronic pelvic pain. We must talk about our Lady parts .BE LIBERATED.

TRULY PEOPLE ARE BEING DESTROYED FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE...

 I ALSO FOUND THESE EASY STEPS FROM WIKIHOW ON HOW TO CARE FOR THE VAGINA...

• Keep healthy. This may seem like a no brainer -- keep healthy to keep a healthy vagina. For this you need to minimize sugar intake, and maximize yogurt intake. Why yogurt? Simple, really. The bacteria in your vagina is a certain type that is in only a couple of foods that you can find in the grocery store. It just so happens, though, that yogurt contains good bacteria called acidophilus. Sugar, meanwhile, promotes the type of bacteria that the yogurt bacterias, if you will, try to kill off. So, as said before, minimize sugar, and maximize yogurt, sugar-free preferably.

• Keep yourself clean. A large cause of infections happen simply because sweat or oils built up until there was nothing for it to do except fester and form an infection. Never fun. So bathe and shower regularly, and try and keep "down there" as clean as possible, without using a douche. Douches clean too much-- they take away some of the bad bacteria, but then they also take away massive amounts of the good bacteria. Unfortunately, the bad bacteria builds itself up, and you're worse off than before. Douching can also lead to increased inflammation (vaginitis).  A simple washcloth, with a small amount of mild unscented soap and water works fine, The vagina is constantly flushing itself. So allow it to work the way it was designed. (Have you ever tried spraying a perfume down there..I COMMENT MY RESERVE ..A TRIAL WILL CONFUSE YOU..DON'T DARE LOL)

• Use condoms! Condoms, while helping to protect you against pregnancy, also help keep your vagina clean. Having unprotected sex often can lead to vagina problems as well as the obvious pregnancy and STDs.

• Use dental dams and gloves If you receive oral sex or are being fingered.

• Wear cotton underwear. Cotton is very breathable, if you will, and allows the vagina to get air circulating around it. This helps to keep things from building up "down there", and also helps maintain good skin around the vagina area.

• Take out your old tampons. Leaving a tampon in your vagina too long, more than six hours, is a very bad idea. It can cause a toxic syndrome (TSS), as well as some very disgusting build up. Use smaller size and change sooner. Changing out pads often is also a good idea-- leaving a pad on too long can cause serious irritation to the skin on and around the vagina like diaper rash! So keep the diaper rash at bay, and change your pad throughout the day.

• Avoid sprays and scented soaps. Actually, try and avoid soaps "down there" as much as possible. They can get caught in the crevices of the vagina and fester. And you have an infection of the vagina in no time at all. Sprays and scented soaps, though, are more damaging, as they are designed to leave a bit behind-- the scent, and you don't want anything left on the skin of your vagina at all. Soaps and bubble baths can also worsen vaginal dryness.

• Visit your gynecologist regularly. Only your doctor can accurately diagnose any problems you may be having. If you do suspect anything at all, call and make an appointment as soon as you can.

A woman giving birth in post earthquake HAITI.....RESPECT

• Rinse Well. While showering or taking a bath, rinse your vagina with lots of water, especially if you use soap. Rinsing will help remove any "build-up, discharge, etc" It will also give you that fresh scent, but if you have extra discharge or build-up, like the above step says see your gynecologist.

THIS IS THE VIDEO THAT INSPIRED THIS POST..WATCH AND LEARN

MEET FEMI KUTI , A THREE TIME GRAMMY AWARD NOMINEE AND A GREAT AND ACCOMPLISHED AFRO BEAT MUSICIAN

Olufela Olufemi Anikulapo Kuti (born 16 June 1962), popularly known as Femi Kuti, is a Nigerian musician and the eldest son of afrobeat icon FELA KUTI. Femi was born in London to Fela and Remi Kuti and grew up in  Lagos. . Femi started off his musical career by becoming a member of his father's band.
Like his father, Femi has shown a strong commitment to social and political causes throughout his career.
He created his own band Positive Force in the late 1980s with Dele Sosimi (Gbedu Resurrection), a former key-board player of Fela Anikulapo Kuti. His international career began in 1988 when he was invited by the French Cultural Centre in Lagos and Christian Mousset to perform at the Festival d'Angoulême (France), the New Morning Club in Paris and the Moers Festival in Germany.

Femi Kuti is a three time  Grammy Award nominee for the for Best World Music Album category....We are looking forward to him bringing it home soon!!


NGOZI GOLD : What is Music and Dance to you ?

FEMI KUTI : Music is everything to me..

Femi Kuti on stage

NGOZI GOLD : What inspires you ?

FEMI KUTI : Everything about life in general inspires me,

Handsome Man

NGOZI GOLD :  How did you feel when you got your first Grammy nomination ?

FEMI KUTI : I was very surprised and grateful everyone seemed so happy for me.

NGOZI GOLD : Why are you proud to be African ?

FEMI KUTI : I  am proud to be African because I love my culture and I love my people.

NGOZI GOLD : As the son of the GREAT FELA , was your life path chosen for you or did u carve a niche for yourself ?

EBA MI EDA FELA OF LIFE!!

FEMI KUTI : I always wanted to play music, it was just a question of time and opportunity..and i am glad both favoured me..

Femi and his brother Seun..blood is thicker than water

NGOZI GOLD : Who are your best new school artistes (both foreign and local) do we expect any collaboration soon?

FEMI KUTI : Unfortunately I cant answer that question because I might mistakenly forget to mention a few and that would not be fair .. I love all of them and I wish them well.

His beautiful Sister Yeni...AN AFRICAN QUEEN (lovely dress..SEXY DIVA)

NGOZI GOLD : What makes you smile ?

FEMI KUTI : My children bring the greatest joy to my life, I smile anytime I see them or think about them..which is everytime..that then means I am always smiling.....lol

Family is key and important to FEMI KUTI

NGOZI GOLD : Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years ?

Femi's kids getting ready for school

FEMI KUTI : Hmmmmn.....Doing what I've never done before....I always hope to always take myself to the next level....I will keep pushing for the best, striving for perfection , hoping to do better than the best!!

NGOZI GOLD : Thank You so much Sir for your time

FEMI KUTI : You are welcome Dear....


Kindly follow FEMI KUTI on twitter @Femiakuti 
(He follows back, replies and retweets!)

It was a delight chatting with FEMI KUTI,
NGOZI GOLD WISHES YOU AND YOUR OWN ALL THE BEST IN ALL YOU DO AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR HUSTLE!!

Femi Kuti and Yinka Davis

Femi Kuti at the london unplugged concert

Femi Kuti at the nobel peace concert

Femi Kuti and Sasha

Femi and Jesse jagz 

Album Artwork for his new album

HAVE YOU GUYS NOTICED THAT MR FEMI KUTI HAS NEVER WORN AN ENGLISH SUIT IN PUBLIC.....OR IS IT JUST ME..LOL


FEMI KUTI IS INDEED AFRICA'S PRIDE...

NGOZI GOLD MEETS THE GUINESS BOOK OF RECORDS HOLDER FOR LONGEST DREADLOCKS IN THE WORLD..ASHA MANDELA

Asha, Zulu Mandela , holds the record for the world’s longest DREADLOCKS. Her beautiful locks are twenty  and a half feet in length. Indeed, her hair got her into the Guinness Book of World Records in 2008. Asha arrived at the decision to grow dreadlocks in March 1988. Before then, Asha was just like other women – braiding and weaving her hair. But today she is a head turner. Everywhere she goes people marvel at her locs.

Born to a South African father and a Trinidadian mother, Asha said the idea to grow dreadlocks came to her in a vision. She says she had a dream and in her words..“whereby the Most High asked me to grow locks”. To her, this was, and still is, a spiritual calling. HMmmhhh!.Im impressed that her hair edges are still in tact!

Asha calls her hair LOX...meaning luscious luxurious locs....there is nothing dreadful about her hair....I think she should copyright the word lox because we loc lovers will start using it.....

NGOZI GOLD : Your locs are lovely and unique , when you started your loc journey, did you ever imagine the length of your locs will make you a living legend and at what point did you decide never to cut them.

ASHA MANDELA : When I was spiritually advised to start growing Lox, I had absolutely no idea how to care for it ,  I was beginning a new chapter in my life. I knew I was NEVER going to cut them..but I had no idea how long I was going to grow them or the enormous length they would grow to. Now 25 yrs later, to  be hailed and considered a living legend...wow, its all still a dream.

Queen Asha Mandela 

Asha is definitely a woman on fire,  she runs her business and still finds time to cook..

NGOZI GOLD : Do people treat you differently because of your hair and how do you deal with negative people?

ASHA MANDELA: The treatment from people have been both positive and negative...but I would say its 80% positive since we can never please everyone. Most people actually love my lox and admire my commitment to growing it this long and of course, they are amazed by its length and beauty. The negative people are the ones who think its dirty and useless...but they are the ones who actually give me the courage to continue on my Journey, I say to myself all the time..the more they scorn me...the taller and prouder I walk.

NGOZI GOLD : Does the length of your hair affect how you dress? what inspires your unique fashion statement ?

ASHA MANDELA : The length of my Lox has never effected the way I dress. On a regular every day basis, I dress casual without any help...but when I am doing shows or interviews, I attire in a Sari and it get a bit tricky to control my hair and wrap the Sari, other than that I am not restricted in anyway with what I can or cannot wear.
My fashion statement comes from my mixed heritage and the spiritual realm with which I am in. I am African yet I practice Hinduism , so I combined the 2 cultures and love going over the top when I mix and match my attire and accessories .. LOL..

NGOZI GOLD : Does your hair get in the way of sleep and passion with your sweetheart (lol) ...?

ASHA MANDELA :LOL..LOL..Oh my...LOL.. My Lox is quite Empress friendly LOL.. I sometimes bundle and use it as a pillow...or lay it along side me..or lay a sheet on the floor beside the bed and lay it on there for sleep.
It does not get in the way of passion at all... you may not believe this but I either lay it alongside me or on the floor during those tender moments..and It never gets in the way...its lovers friendly...LOL..LOL..

Her Hair doesnt get in the way of SLEEP OR PASSION...lol

NGOZI GOLD :  Is your family supportive of your loc journey...?

ASHA MANDELA : In the beginning my family was not happy and supportive of me growing Lox...I had already migrated to the US when I started my journey. Most of my immediate family live in Trinidad. My mom told me to remove the mop from my head before I am welcomed in her home again, she said to me " imagine I put nice Vaseline and lard in your hair and groom it so nicely..now look what you did to it" she was not happy with me at all. I stood my ground and continued on my journey..It took 5 years into my journey for my mother to finally come around , then the rest of the family started accepting me again not realizing where we would be today ...

Asha 's King / Husband/ Man helping her maintain her hair after washing

NGOZI GOLD :  How do you care for your locs?

ASHA MANDELA :Caring for my BABY is easy...its really not as hard and complicated as people seem to think. I wash my lox once a week. Its done in the shower since the sinks are to small and using a tub is very uncomfortable. I massage my roots/scalp daily with my growth renew Oyl and only retwist them for photo shoots or interviews..

Asha at a saloon in Nairobi

NGOZI GOLD : How can we achieve locs as beautiful, vibrant and long as yours

ASHA MANDELA : Maintaining a healthy diet and drinking lots of water, nourishes the inner body to assist the use of the right products on the outside. Over 12 yrs ago I suffered thinning and hair loss due to chemo treatments and just could not find a product that worked for me. So I developed my own formula to stop the thinning and hair loss and promote thickness with xxx times new growth. Its what I call "my genie in a bottle". Since then my lox just took on a life of its own and kept growing at a fast rate..My products are called ZULU Earth Solutions, its an ALL natural hair product that's formulated for ALL hair types, Its tested and proven to be effective in all the ways I described.. leaving your hair absolutely beautiful and loxcious or luscious lol...............

NGOZI GOLD : When will you bless Nigeria with your presence and loc products?

ASHA MANDELA :I will be visiting Nigeria very soon since I have a huge demand for my products. My schedule is very tight so it will be tough fitting a tip to Nigeria ..but I have such a huge fan base there, I really will visit so my brothers and sisters can have access to my products...

Asha Mandela 3 MONTHS  into her LOX journey

Asha and her King, during her African Themed wedding..

Asha and her lovely son Zion..

He loves his woman for sure...

NGOZI GOLD : What makes you smile?

ASHA MANDELA :Waking up to a new day every day, knowing I have another chance to breathe the breath of life makes me smile. Receiving lots of inboxes and emails with people telling me how much they admire me..admire my strength and determination and how much I have been an inspiration to them, makes me smile. Being blessed with a wonderful Kingman and my 11yr old son Zion, make me smile.
Knowing I am special and have set the standards high for Black women and Lox, makes me smile knowing that I must be doing something right...

Asha Mandela is truly a living Legend..Her hair length is awesome

NGOZI GOLD : Where do you see yourself and your Locs in the next 5 years!

ASHA MANDELA :5yrs from now I see myself continuing on my spiritual lox journey..and caring for my baby keeping it looking as beautiful as ever. I see myself doing lots of charity and humanitarian work, travelling to many parts of Africa caring for the homeless and underprivileged . 5yrs from now I see myself finally being acknowledged and recognized for the legend I really am and the example and path I have paved for my fellow naturals and African people...

Asha's hair being admired

ASHA'S ZULU EARTH HAIR PRODUCTS.....

Asha 's hair products ..ZULU EARTH SOLUTIONS..

Some of her hand made Jewellry from her jewellry line..

NGOZI GOLD is honored to be connected to ASHA MANDELA ..THE LIVING LEGEND AND A GREAT INSPIRATION TO WOMEN WHO WANT TO EMBRACE NATURALITY...

Enjoy an interview she had with Sunrise TV